HEART BREAK....(inspired by BSCN.....the departed)

hmmm my people oh where do i start from....bear with me this note is just a quick write up...cos i read BSCN' blog....ok.....lets start....

its a sweet experience to fall in love ....something you cant just explain...most tyms we nid to hold everything close you our heart....although alot of guys dont knw what they have until they lose it ..likewise ladies.

singles, who have been hurt and have experience a broken relationship, often carry in their heart unforgiveness towards those around them....bscn' story is quiet different from this....cos i really dont know the full story how she meet reggie... but am sure she was hoping something great and wonderful would come out of the relationship....someone once shared a story of how her fiance impregnated and married her best friend...tell me ow can one get over this...

but the truth still remain that life goes on, when she later got involved in other relationship she ened up dumping the men after raising their hopes that she was committed to the relationship.....wetin.....my people is she hurting them or hurting herself...

you need to let go of bitterness by accepting the frailty of man......after all no be man...and to err is man

learn from the past...ask yourself what part did you play that led to the relationship breaking up? Do not conclude that you did nothing, such attitude mite just be the reason why it got broken in the first place

alot of ladies ...aba....women...most of us put the blame on men...without trying to adjust ourselves.
someone said that one of the reasons that men and women fail to love is because they dont do an autopsy on the death of their last relationship

speak to urself....the mind is a battle ground, you need to say to urself...move one ...tell yourself the truth...no mind me i know ee no dey easy ...but that is the only thing that will help.

Renew your mind...that all men and women are not desame though both sex have similiar traits, but the degree of traits are manifested is one of the differentiating feactors

look at the bright side of things..there is someone somewhere God has prepared specially for you.....hmmmm...ideal man and wowan...see groove.....lol
dont bother abt HEART BREAKERS ...THEY DONT WORTH THE CRY.....
1. knw that it is not the end of the world

2. work on your mind to guide you against bitterness, hatred and envy...

3. believe in yourself ...notin more

4. ehh ehh start taking care of yourselfand make yourself available for ...BETTA GUY...

5.Become friendly, smile laugh and mingle with others

6. definitely, thought of him / her would come to yuor mind...try an engage yourself to some thing good...

7. need you cry any longer, wipe your tears, come out of your shell, think abt those great things you desire coming your way

8.live as if you're the only creature on earth....

it helps.....what do you think my friends do you agree with me.....