The ten commandment of handling difficult people
1. Use the 10% principle, find the 1% you agree on and give it 100% of your attention
2. Love people more than policies, but love truth more than people
3. Give others benefit of the doubt
4. Learn to be flexible of your doubt
5. Check your own attitude
6. Dont over react to conflict and disagreement
7. Welcome the conflict. make it a learning experience
8. Provide an escape for the person in conflict, let them maintain their dignity
9. Take risk, give people a second chance
10. Take the high road, be generous and believe the best about others.
this has rilly helped me cos you can never stay away from difficult people, even thou you try to avoid them they will always come to you.
this is a word for myself, i op you are grabbing it.
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
EVERYTHING COMES IF A MAN CAN ONLY WAIT
Jh 16:33 says "here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows, but take heart bcos i have overcome the world.
most of us go thru pains, accident, sickness and we often say God is wicked for making us go thru all dat. Believe me, many of us dont have idea why all dis are happening.
now let me tell you some of the reasons why ; God knows wat is best for us, you survived an accident becos of God's mercy, dat doesnt mean mercy was not made available for the oda person that didnt survive the accident, its Gods dat knows wat is best for the person.
Angels try to speak to us each n every minute but ow many of us listen? ow many of us even know dat we have angels beside us day n nite
a man who has bin lookin for a job for the past 4years and all of a sudden, he gets a very good job, will you say wat has God bin looking at, why didnt He give him the job since? it takes understanding for us to know dat not every thing dat are urgent are really important.
no matter who you are, as long as you're alive even dou you get to eat once a day. i knw its still God's love and favour speakin for you, have bin telling my friends i nid a change on every side of my life ..i sounded desperate. but then i realize that God is not sleeping He knows wat my problem is, why cant i just give Him chance. He loves me and He said He will never let me down...
it doesn't matter ow your feelin rite now....killin your self wont change anytin ...remember Jesus paid the price.
i nid you to knw dat.... even before you commit any sin Jesus blood speaks for you ....dont take that for granted
i love you God loves you.
most of us go thru pains, accident, sickness and we often say God is wicked for making us go thru all dat. Believe me, many of us dont have idea why all dis are happening.
now let me tell you some of the reasons why ; God knows wat is best for us, you survived an accident becos of God's mercy, dat doesnt mean mercy was not made available for the oda person that didnt survive the accident, its Gods dat knows wat is best for the person.
Angels try to speak to us each n every minute but ow many of us listen? ow many of us even know dat we have angels beside us day n nite
a man who has bin lookin for a job for the past 4years and all of a sudden, he gets a very good job, will you say wat has God bin looking at, why didnt He give him the job since? it takes understanding for us to know dat not every thing dat are urgent are really important.
no matter who you are, as long as you're alive even dou you get to eat once a day. i knw its still God's love and favour speakin for you, have bin telling my friends i nid a change on every side of my life ..i sounded desperate. but then i realize that God is not sleeping He knows wat my problem is, why cant i just give Him chance. He loves me and He said He will never let me down...
it doesn't matter ow your feelin rite now....killin your self wont change anytin ...remember Jesus paid the price.
i nid you to knw dat.... even before you commit any sin Jesus blood speaks for you ....dont take that for granted
i love you God loves you.
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