hmmm my people oh where do i start from....bear with me this note is just a quick write up...cos i read BSCN' blog....ok.....lets start....
its a sweet experience to fall in love ....something you cant just explain...most tyms we nid to hold everything close you our heart....although alot of guys dont knw what they have until they lose it ..likewise ladies.
singles, who have been hurt and have experience a broken relationship, often carry in their heart unforgiveness towards those around them....bscn' story is quiet different from this....cos i really dont know the full story how she meet reggie... but am sure she was hoping something great and wonderful would come out of the relationship....someone once shared a story of how her fiance impregnated and married her best friend...tell me ow can one get over this...
but the truth still remain that life goes on, when she later got involved in other relationship she ened up dumping the men after raising their hopes that she was committed to the relationship.....wetin.....my people is she hurting them or hurting herself...
you need to let go of bitterness by accepting the frailty of man......after all no be man...and to err is man
learn from the past...ask yourself what part did you play that led to the relationship breaking up? Do not conclude that you did nothing, such attitude mite just be the reason why it got broken in the first place
alot of ladies ...aba....women...most of us put the blame on men...without trying to adjust ourselves.
someone said that one of the reasons that men and women fail to love is because they dont do an autopsy on the death of their last relationship
speak to urself....the mind is a battle ground, you need to say to urself...move one ...tell yourself the truth...no mind me i know ee no dey easy ...but that is the only thing that will help.
Renew your mind...that all men and women are not desame though both sex have similiar traits, but the degree of traits are manifested is one of the differentiating feactors
look at the bright side of things..there is someone somewhere God has prepared specially for you.....hmmmm...ideal man and wowan...see groove.....lol
dont bother abt HEART BREAKERS ...THEY DONT WORTH THE CRY.....
1. knw that it is not the end of the world
2. work on your mind to guide you against bitterness, hatred and envy...
3. believe in yourself ...notin more
4. ehh ehh start taking care of yourselfand make yourself available for ...BETTA GUY...
5.Become friendly, smile laugh and mingle with others
6. definitely, thought of him / her would come to yuor mind...try an engage yourself to some thing good...
7. need you cry any longer, wipe your tears, come out of your shell, think abt those great things you desire coming your way
8.live as if you're the only creature on earth....
it helps.....what do you think my friends do you agree with me.....
Friday, October 30, 2009
Monday, October 19, 2009
RACISM (a nightmare)
One day in august walking along the dusty road in South Carolina, it was summer and i think the temperature was at least 100 in the shade, but i was going to visit my aunt. i was an only child, but she had a house full of children and we play well together. i used to walk there quite often, things seems to be beter than it used to be. As i walked along, i felt as though i was getting baked alive, my blond hair was turning a different color. i dont know why but the hottest day of the year i lift my straw hat home. As i continue to walk, it was as though i could count with my toes, each pebble on the ground. how i sished for a ride. a few cars passed by, but i wouldnt dare get into someone's car unless i knew them well. i had been warned especially about the colored people, i was so afraid of them.
Finally someone came along that i knew well. it was Buzz and Dan. i was happy to see them, they grew up in the community and besides, they lived on the next street from me. so i jumped in the car feeling rather safe. Buzz was driving and he mentioned something about a short cut through the woods. for some reason i began to feel butterflies in my stomach, but these were good guys why should i feel uncomfortable? after all i saw them in church every sunday. then suddenly the car stopped and i was asked to get out so they could fine out wat the problem was.
By the time my feet touched the ground, my entire body was on the ground and they rolled me over and over. i asked them to stop but they wouldnt listen, i yelled and kicked but, their wasnt a house in sight. Buzz calledme a cry baby and told me to shut up because we were going to have some fun and i would like it. they tossed me around as though i was a beach ball. i could no longer fight the two of them off, so i lay motionless on the ground, i felt as though i was being crushed by a heavy building. i was there for what seemed to me , hours. my body begsan to ache all over. when the ordeal was completed, i was left alone with my clothes hlf torn off. i was dirty and bugs were crawling on me. somehow i managed to crawl back to the side of the dusty road, i tried to stand when i heard the next car coming, but fell as the car came closer. as i lay on the ground i could hear the car door slam. maybe a nice lady was coming to help me, As i looked up, i could see this colored man standing over me, i quickly said to him, please dont hurt me... i told him who i was and who my parents were, then i blacked out.
The next day, i found out that the doctor had been to visit me during the night. as i lay in bed i heard my parent's say; ''He wont get away with it" i called to them so i could explain what had happened, but they wouldnt listen. they told me they knew what happened and he would never hurt anyone else.
The headlines in the paper read: COLORED BOY RAPES WHITE GIRL. I tried to tell them that they were making a mistake but they refused to believe me. i knew he was innocent, he helped me. Nice boys like Dan and Buzz wouldnt do a thing like that. i continued to tell them that they were making a mistake but everyone turned a deaf ear to me. a few days passed and the poor colored boy was HANGED. i begand to tell myself it was all a bad dream. about six weeks following the hanging, i was unable to distinguish what was reality. i was finally placed in a mental institution. that was over 20years ago. i still remain in the institution, every night that poor boy that was hanged comes to visit me. i cant forget him will it ever go away? because of me he died and because of him, I DIE TOO.....
A TRUE LIFE STORY....LETS JOIN HANDS TOGETHER AND STOP THE "R" WORD {RACISM}
Finally someone came along that i knew well. it was Buzz and Dan. i was happy to see them, they grew up in the community and besides, they lived on the next street from me. so i jumped in the car feeling rather safe. Buzz was driving and he mentioned something about a short cut through the woods. for some reason i began to feel butterflies in my stomach, but these were good guys why should i feel uncomfortable? after all i saw them in church every sunday. then suddenly the car stopped and i was asked to get out so they could fine out wat the problem was.
By the time my feet touched the ground, my entire body was on the ground and they rolled me over and over. i asked them to stop but they wouldnt listen, i yelled and kicked but, their wasnt a house in sight. Buzz calledme a cry baby and told me to shut up because we were going to have some fun and i would like it. they tossed me around as though i was a beach ball. i could no longer fight the two of them off, so i lay motionless on the ground, i felt as though i was being crushed by a heavy building. i was there for what seemed to me , hours. my body begsan to ache all over. when the ordeal was completed, i was left alone with my clothes hlf torn off. i was dirty and bugs were crawling on me. somehow i managed to crawl back to the side of the dusty road, i tried to stand when i heard the next car coming, but fell as the car came closer. as i lay on the ground i could hear the car door slam. maybe a nice lady was coming to help me, As i looked up, i could see this colored man standing over me, i quickly said to him, please dont hurt me... i told him who i was and who my parents were, then i blacked out.
The next day, i found out that the doctor had been to visit me during the night. as i lay in bed i heard my parent's say; ''He wont get away with it" i called to them so i could explain what had happened, but they wouldnt listen. they told me they knew what happened and he would never hurt anyone else.
The headlines in the paper read: COLORED BOY RAPES WHITE GIRL. I tried to tell them that they were making a mistake but they refused to believe me. i knew he was innocent, he helped me. Nice boys like Dan and Buzz wouldnt do a thing like that. i continued to tell them that they were making a mistake but everyone turned a deaf ear to me. a few days passed and the poor colored boy was HANGED. i begand to tell myself it was all a bad dream. about six weeks following the hanging, i was unable to distinguish what was reality. i was finally placed in a mental institution. that was over 20years ago. i still remain in the institution, every night that poor boy that was hanged comes to visit me. i cant forget him will it ever go away? because of me he died and because of him, I DIE TOO.....
A TRUE LIFE STORY....LETS JOIN HANDS TOGETHER AND STOP THE "R" WORD {RACISM}
Thursday, October 15, 2009
EVERYTHING HAS IT'S TIME {Ecc 3:1-8} This is one of the chapters dat interest me....now lets get going what is time?
Time is something that keep running and waits for no one... in everything you do give time...even though you dont give it, it alwayz come into the picture of what ever you do. one of my pastors says "life managements begins with time management" which i strongly believe
were i am today seems to be like i could neva get there {back then}but then time stepped in, a future of a man goes with time alwayz take a step at a time there is never a need to rush things
seriously speaking, right now i need alot of things dat i cant even wait for tommorrow to come and this thing called time keeps stepping in to say ...slow down you cant do it without me... i now creat"
a friend of mine came to preach in my church his name is FISAYO... while he was preaching i saw his zeal and i looked back at were we all started from.... guess what it was time that set in ... time for him to shine
before now i used to compare myself with a lot of people around me, like wanting to be like them... i realize their was time for everything...now i have what i want if not all but few... which i say THANK GOD...somepeople dont even have quater of wat i have today... so tell me why cant i wait for time?
Fisayo was once a teenager dats why he was able to flow with each and every one of us,
events in life dont announce their coming time just set in.
i want you to know that there is time for everything under heaven....even a lion no matter how hungry it is there is always time for it to look for its prey
God has made everything beautiful in His own way.... the difference between the beginning and the end is Time.
Give life time
were i am today seems to be like i could neva get there {back then}but then time stepped in, a future of a man goes with time alwayz take a step at a time there is never a need to rush things
seriously speaking, right now i need alot of things dat i cant even wait for tommorrow to come and this thing called time keeps stepping in to say ...slow down you cant do it without me... i now creat"
a friend of mine came to preach in my church his name is FISAYO... while he was preaching i saw his zeal and i looked back at were we all started from.... guess what it was time that set in ... time for him to shine
before now i used to compare myself with a lot of people around me, like wanting to be like them... i realize their was time for everything...now i have what i want if not all but few... which i say THANK GOD...somepeople dont even have quater of wat i have today... so tell me why cant i wait for time?
Fisayo was once a teenager dats why he was able to flow with each and every one of us,
events in life dont announce their coming time just set in.
i want you to know that there is time for everything under heaven....even a lion no matter how hungry it is there is always time for it to look for its prey
God has made everything beautiful in His own way.... the difference between the beginning and the end is Time.
Give life time
Friday, October 9, 2009
happy buffday to me
am so so happy to be joined to the living....infact very strong....wen i look back at were i started from i just kip thanking God, its not easy i must say. those tyms dat on my birthday am alwayz ill... and moody.... and then alwayz bothered that my ex is not calling but now am as free as a butterfly.....
i got l0ads of text messages i couldn't sleep. my best friend gave me a wonderful gift i felt special.....no bi me oh ...na God do am.....
am having a gats 2 gada {jenifa} in my house 2morow... and i hope it turns out gud... i trust God thou my sistas and friends are doing the arrangy.... "cookin and all dat" also got buffday cake from 3people wow .....i feel loved.......
swity pies ...plz pray for me today is my day and i know your prayers will go a long way in my life
ttlola....my love dont worry yours will be sent thru twitter..... wish you were around.....i will upload pics .....world changers'
may i have enof happiness to make me sweet
enof hope to make me happy,
enof sorrow to keep me human.... God can not give me beyond wat is best for me
enof money to buy myself a gift......
love ya all..........
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