Alot of things kip runing thru my mind....yesterday was really a bad day.The atmosphere was not encouraging at all,I and my friends were eating together and also talking which we were actually disturbing someone dat was praying....our bad
But then my bff decieded to get on my nerves again..it was to the extreme.i guess he nided someone to tell him the truth which i guess i did sha...no matter how it turned out to be.
i was really mad at him for even thinking he could take me for granted..the whole issue was dat..... infact it all started wen i used a phrase for him saying" dont use anoda man's time to work"....wait wait it's not wat u think....he actually nided to hear dat 4rm me...sincerely. he behave like a girl ...girlz kip things in there mind 4 eva.....
he went to get sometin at the market which i had to even call him up if he got it ..........Good girl like me.....but then he still thinks he is smart but am sorry to tell you guyz he is not
letter dat day he took sometin he was not supposed to take away and i was just trying to tell himhe cant ....abeg on see me see oh ...he just bursted out...lik say sometin bite am....i shock.....i gave it back to him ......people around knw i was not at fault.... i gave it back to him....mcshweeee
but then i went for prayers and asked God for forgiveness knowing fully well i was also at fault..to have returned those wordsi thot God's forgiveness wont be complete if i dont walk up to him......i kept aside my pride.....i did and he just said he was sorry too.. i did care if he meant it or not but i hv don my own part...well snd all good
wat am i driving at.......quarelling destroys alot of things around us even without us knowing....i alwayz try not to quarel with him...but he is just a difficult person to deal with at least to some extent i know him....dats why i tend to ignore his bad side.......
wen you realize that people treat you according to how they see themselves rather than how you are, you're less likely to be affected by their behaviour how do i really cope wit him......
i nid advise.......friends.......
have you expressed this to him? Maybe he doesn't understand that he comes across as difficult. Maybe there are things he needs to express to you as well. I hope you guys work it out because that sort of stress does nothing good for a relationship.
ReplyDeleteNice blog, I will be back. And, BTW, welcome to blogville!
tnks solomon ...u really make a lot of sense
ReplyDeletei talked to him abt it n then he recognise his mistakes.......