chocolate and plantain gurlz (an interesting perspective of proverbs 31:10-31)

Let me guess you are a little startled at this topic. i also am, please have this chocolate bar (bounty is my favorite) and plantain . feel free to eat any of them as you read on.

One day, while musing about the different kind of females i had met, i had an epiphany. i discovered that they could be classified into two broad categories: chocolate and plantain. you may be thinking to yourself, "BIG DEAL! NA TODAY? WHO NO KNOW? abeg chocolate girls are all out, use cover-up, bla bla bla ...,and plantain girls are the exact opposite. Infact most "SU" girls are plantain girls" well you are not entirely correct, most plaintain girls dress well and there are scores of chocolate girls in the church. yes, i said church ....so wat is my point.


Before i go on i want to point out dat this is not abt marriage (wat do i know abt marriage). i have shared these thought with couple of my friends and they think my point is amusing....... truthfully our biblical text may not fit exactly since it talks abt wife, however it will give us insight abt a type of females........let's find out ......


now chocolate girls........dignity is a sense of your own importance and value. from afar the chocolate girls looks very confident..hmm get closer and you will see her low self worth. she kips working on the outside to get approval. she is a compulsive user of cover-up (excessive make-up) goes to those expensive outings almost everytime, must be at celebritygatherings, must have expensive outgoing cell phones she will never use ( why buy an iphone and use it to make just calls and send sms?) tries to look so much like video girls and then wonder why her bride price is negotiated, buys almost everything she sees on fashion tv and never uses the toilet.

If she has the financial base to maintain this lifestyl, hmm thanks to daddy(ies) and bobos, she will get haughty and live in the illusion that she is of a class .....the moment she is stripped of her glamorous artificial wraper, her weak and malleable core is exposed......


for plantain gurls hmmm........do you know the funny thing is that plantain girls has many of the material things the chocolate girl has, along with a haelthy high self esteem. some day she may use make-up (many do) dress gorgeously and on the oda days, maybe plait her hair, wear plain clothing and eat at white house (an amala joint at sabo) after shoping at tejuosho market. she is very natural and happy with herself.......infact let me stop here so you can imagine a little .....ahh ahh she is just to much.........to be continued.............(fisayo)

MIS-UNDERSTANDING

Alot of things kip runing thru my mind....yesterday was really a bad day.The atmosphere was not encouraging at all,I and my friends were eating together and also talking which we were actually disturbing someone dat was praying....our bad
But then my bff decieded to get on my nerves again..it was to the extreme.i guess he nided someone to tell him the truth which i guess i did sha...no matter how it turned out to be.

i was really mad at him for even thinking he could take me for granted..the whole issue was dat..... infact it all started wen i used a phrase for him saying" dont use anoda man's time to work"....wait wait it's not wat u think....he actually nided to hear dat 4rm me...sincerely. he behave like a girl ...girlz kip things in there mind 4 eva.....
he went to get sometin at the market which i had to even call him up if he got it ..........Good girl like me.....but then he still thinks he is smart but am sorry to tell you guyz he is not

letter dat day he took sometin he was not supposed to take away and i was just trying to tell himhe cant ....abeg on see me see oh ...he just bursted out...lik say sometin bite am....i shock.....i gave it back to him ......people around knw i was not at fault.... i gave it back to him....mcshweeee

but then i went for prayers and asked God for forgiveness knowing fully well i was also at fault..to have returned those wordsi thot God's forgiveness wont be complete if i dont walk up to him......i kept aside my pride.....i did and he just said he was sorry too.. i did care if he meant it or not but i hv don my own part...well snd all good


wat am i driving at.......quarelling destroys alot of things around us even without us knowing....i alwayz try not to quarel with him...but he is just a difficult person to deal with at least to some extent i know him....dats why i tend to ignore his bad side.......
wen you realize that people treat you according to how they see themselves rather than how you are, you're less likely to be affected by their behaviour how do i really cope wit him......


i nid advise.......friends.......

Thanking God......

you woke up this morning....not even to say Good morning prayer,i stood and watched the first thing you did was to pick up your to check if you had any missed call...den you turned on the television, i waited hoping that after TV you would say tnk you but you didnt even the food you ate "no thank you all the same"....you were in a haste to go out and gist with your friends
u came back home and hurried for food again and went to bed........neva thinking you came home without accident and still Angels dat follows you everywhere were reconciling for you.

Remembering the blood dat was shed for your sake to bring you bac home to thy father.there was no way you could come home without the man on the cross.....pause think abt it... it was a praise picture see if you can do dat.....it was not just a cross nor just a man, not even a murderer ,liar or a thief .....guess wat it was an INNOCENT MAN.

you see why you should be thankful to thy father,you eat three meals in your house not in the hospital and still you are not grateful....you sleep everyday and wake up safely, anything could hv happened but because of the blood shed and who is interceding at my right hand for you.....
I am the lord that sitted up the circle of the earth ......i hv forgiven you......sayz the LORD......
am also guilty of that sometyms i wake up without tnkin God........but He is still merciful.....let God help us

STYLE IN YOUR WALLET

SENSITIVE:
Dont be afraid to show ur shy side......boyz dont alwayz want to date a loud mouth............Be sensitive but save the tears of your mate.....gals who bulb at the slightest excuse just freak boyz out
be careful of the people you move with......follow people dat has desame value with you .......people will treat you the way you want to be treated......wen you follow agbero(ras boy) he will treat you ras........so be sensitive to thing around you

CONFIDENCE:
Hold your head up high and stop slouching.....not only will it make you appear more confident.....it will improve your posture and make your cloth hang better.......lol......funny rite........seriously wen you walk with no confidence and really bothered abt the way you will be addressed ........you even become very distracting...........and you will just continue to adjust your cloth............that's why isay dont wear anything you dont feel comfortable in .....believe me it will show

CHEEKY:
Smile...smile...smile...it will make you and everyone around you feel better..........people say hold his gaze, look away slowly and then cheekly smile back........its drives him wild.....wow.......are you serious........guess it has worked for somepeople..........dont ever be shy to start up a conversation with someone......expecially if is someone you like ......you can be the first to say hi....and leave him/her to carry out the remaining job........
if you look good or feel good ...it shows on the outside...boyz reckon that the sexiest girls are the ones who alwayz look like they're having a great time........so dont ever stress your look ...just smile.

LAID BACK:
Boys like girls to look natural, so dont cake on the slap...if you know what i mean and definitely dont dress like Christina Aguilera or madonna clone.......

dont strees about your outfit/hairstyle/ body.... cos boyz love girls who are comfortable with their looks..... a positive attitude gets desame in return.........
LIFE IS COOL.......Bla Bla Bla

thought running thru my mind..........

Alot is running thru my mind rite which iguess i shouls just blow.....i check myself sometyms and i feel like i have not acheived anytin .....there are tyms i talk to people at the end i feel just so empty at the end .....at the same tym i talk to people dat make life worth living........i really nid alot of chances in my life which iguess can happen while sitting in one place......i dont want a wasted life in life i have learn to accept thing the way they are but not to remain there and also listen to people.....i take corrections no matter how frustrating it could be......qam not afraid of losing my friends.....a friend of mine tried to destroy me once and didnt succeed ....i get to knw abt it .....so tell me wat else to be afraid of......they say kip your friends close...kip your enemies closer.......i disagree cos in dis resent world friends tend to destroy you faster than your enemy cos your friend knows you better i realise most of the people you give your life to today wont even be around in a few more years.....dats why am really not bothered abt wat people say abt me......i tried to tell a friend of mine that was complaining abt church folks to just ignore them and try to give the best she can give to life .....you can never satisfy everybody in life the teenage and youth years are a tym wen young people experience a lot of conflicting emotions....which they automatically blame it on odas............ I try to be available for my friends even thou they are neva 4 me...i help them all i can.....some friend suffocate you that you get entangled with them.......s i just try to be careful.......i seriously nid the help of God in every area of my life.......friends wat do you think.............

being cool

you're not cool bcos of ow you walk or what you wear or the people you talk to......alot of people pretend to be wat they are not.....n wen you get to their houses wat u see is garri n epa.......which is really upseting.......to know that they are all pretending......you see them outside n they are lik i eat here........"the here means tasty fried chicken" its too ras......can u just imagine


back in high school i had a friend who wears all sort of designers feeling fly but @home she is somebody else....with "mary amaka gown"wen i saw her i was shocked she was tryin to hide herself 4rm me but i had to call her n she was panting........really its none of my buzz........i just feel why try to be wat you are not..... be yourself you cant be anybody else even thou u pretent to be one

you are accepted and favoured bcos of the good person you are, not the perception you try to create.
surround yourself with people who believe in you small people criticize big dreams.dont allow your faith and self-esteem to be robbed by critical and negative people

you are a great you and a lousy anyone else ....be you ....you are great

nid ur help

which is da best teacher .........EXPERIENCE OR BOOK